I moved out of my place in September, transported all of my things to a mix of friends' homes, and packed/prepared for a trip to the U.S. Then, for almost the rest of September, I was back in the States for my first trip home since I've moved to London. The initial reason was one of my best friend Mary's weddings, and it turned into an elongated trip to meet Jaymie's (other best friend) baby Tilly, visit my family and friends.
So Sept. 5 I arrived home.
I felt like I was in the Twilight Zone. It’s such a strange feeling to simultaneously feel “home” while also noticing all these weird things about ‘Americans’. For example, everything immediately seemed like the stereotypical fried food, McDonald’s culture that so many Europeans think we are (and which I constantly argue against!). And people on the escalators in the States have no system. In Europe, you stand on the right, walk on the left. And what was even stranger, was that just 24 hours after having arrived, as I was prepping for an Ohio State tailgate it seemed as though I’d never left.
Anyway, this trip was several
parts.
Part 1 – Columbus (Jaymie, Tilly, the
Columbus crew and Dan)
Jaymie (one of my best friends) had
her baby this past spring, and I’d never met her! So I was so excited to meet
baby Tilly. I can say with absolutely certainty that this might be not only the
cutest baby I’ve ever seen, but also
the happiest! The darling girl looks like the Michelin man and giggles all the time!
Dan also flew in to see me for the
first time in 2 months and was a total trooper. He met one of my best friends,
stayed with her baby for 3 days, met my parents and spent a full day being
forced without a choice into Buckeye territory.
Got to see several good friends
at Tina’s tailgate...
even Tilly participated....
I know she looks like she doesn't like me...but she actually is just pissed that you're staring at her! |
(this is the Buckeyes halftime show for those of you that don't know...)
Also made several trips (several in one day!) to Jeni's Ice Cream, my all time favorite Ohio ice cream joint!
Such an awesome weekend!!!
Part
2 – Dayton, Ohio
Mom and Dad drove out to Columbus to get me and I spent the rest of
the week home in Dayton with the fam. It was SO nice to just relax at home.
It’s funny how quickly you get back into your life when you’re home. I love our
house. I love the hammock. I love the deck and the porch swing.
I love relaxing
in the countryside. We had a cookout where I got to see family. I drove down to
Cincinnati for a day to see my littlest sister Kaylyn at college.
I still
cannot believe she’s graduated from high school and is away at college already!
I’m honestly so amazed by the person she’s become and I miss her to death. I
also got to see my high school girlfriends for a night (but stupidly realized
we didn’t get a single picture!!!!! So mad!!!). It was a whirlwind that flew
by, but so awesome to be home.
Even the Queen made an appearance! |
Part 3a – North Carolina: Charlotte and the Mountains
Mary’s wedding was down in Asheville, NC. My parents were also invited
(because Mary is amazing and invited my family so I could spend more time with
them), so we decided to drive down to North Carolina. Nice long road trip with
the parents where we drove through the mountains and listened to a book on CD
to make the time fly by. I squeezed in a visit with my friend Michelle who also
made a trip up from South Carolina to see me.
We also stayed with my cousins Brian and Angie at their place in
Charlotte a night. It was my first trip to Charlotte and have to say it was a
pretty cute sprawling Southern city.
Then Mom, Dad and I picked up Kyle on Monday, and continued on to the
mountains above Asheville to rent a cottage for a couple of days.
I have to
tell you right off the bat, this place was called “Bear’s Den” and the owners
warned us that bears had recently been spotted. I was SO pumped!!! I’ve seriously
been wanting to see a bear for years! I know it sounds silly. Whatever. Years
ago my friends took a trip to Colorado and I was dying to see one. Ever since,
no live bear. It’s sort of a goal of mine. I was pretty certain this was a sure
thing, and was relatively bummed when none materialized after 3 days at Bear’s
Den.
Most of the week was so great though. Despite Kyle being a workaholic and having to go to town to get wifi for hours every day, we made some bloody mary’s and sat in the hot tub one day…..
Went on hikes several times…..
Mom and Dad hiking... |
Part
3b – Mary’s Wedding!!!!!! (Asheville, NC)
For those of you that don’t know me super well, I used to be connected
at the hip with Mary. I adore her. And when she moved to Fallon, Nevado to live
with her Navy Top Gun fighter pilot fiancé, and I moved to London, I had a
really hard time. Mary sometimes knows me better than I know myself. So I was
so excited to see her for the first time since December!
Her wedding was actually AT the Biltmore Estate in North Carolina.
It.
Is. Incredible. The whole weekend was such a great gathering of family and
friends who love her (and luckily for me, many of them are close to me too, so
I was so happy to spend time surrounded by people I’ve missed these past
months). Dan was also invited, so he flew in for the long weekend as did my
great friends Abby, Emily and Lauren.
The wedding was incredible. I cried. I don’t usually cry at weddings.
(Seriously, I don’t. I know I cry if you yell at me, but for some reason I
normally don’t cry at weddings. This one was special.) We danced. (a lot). We
partied. I tried not to sniffle all over everyone. ;)
Let's just talk about how incredibly nervous I was to give this wedding speech... |
All in all, it was an amazing weekend. I think the older you get, it’s
even more meaningful to witness someone you care about so much deciding to
marry someone that makes them so happy. It really was so great to see Mary and
Wes so happy.
A few other wedding weekend pics...
We were re-enacting prom here.... |
Cutest parents ever. My mom has the BEST blue eyes! |
Wedding dance party! |
Gotta love a bride that wears green Toms to her wedding.... |
Dan and I and our moustaches |
Leaving on the other hand was tough. Waterworks central on my part.
Sigh… I can’t complain. It was a wonderful long trip home. And I realized I
wasn’t quite “finished” with my European adventure yet. But man….saying bye to
the people you love most is tough! It doesn’t help when you have a nightmare
30+ hour trip back to London either…. Se la vie.
Group hug...and lots of crying... |
Next up? My college buddy Christy’s visit to London, an impromptu trip
to Paris, resuming fall classes, and then the trips I have planned in October
to Lake Como, Italy and Budapest, Hungary!!!!!
Miss you all and thanks to everyone who made my visit home so
wonderful. I miss everyone and while I’m loving my time here, I am newly
excited again to return in the Spring! Xo
The Spring?!?!?! Quit moving your return date back!!! ;)
ReplyDeleteBut seriously. Quit moving that date back
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